Saturday, June 13, 2009

That's the level of love I want to give & recieve



THIS IS WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT !

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.


The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?"
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is."
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life."

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be. The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

Friday, June 12, 2009

One more inspirational Story to end the week.

When I was quite young, my father had one of the first telephones in our neighbourhood. I remember the polished, old case fastened to the wall. The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box. I was too little to reach the telephone, but used to listen with fascination when my mother talked to it.
Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person. Her name was "Information Please" and there was nothing she did not know. Information Please could supply anyone's number and the correct time.

My personal experience with the genie-in-a-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbour. Amusing myself at the tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer, the pain was terrible, but there seemed no point in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy.I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway.
The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to my ear. "Information, please" I said into the mouthpiece just above my head. A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear.
"Information."
"I hurt my finger...." I wailed into the phone, the tears came readily enough now that I had an audience.
"Isn't your mother home?" came the question.
"Nobody's home but me," I blubbered.
"Are you bleeding?" the voice asked.
"No," I replied. "I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts."
"Can you open the icebox?" she asked.
I said I could.
"Then chip off a little bit of ice and hold it to your finger," said the voice.

After that, I called "Information Please" for everything. I asked her for help with my geography, and she told me where Philadelphia was. She helped me with my math. She told me my pet chipmunk that I had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit and nuts. Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary, died. I called, Information Please," and told her the sad story.
She listened, and then said things grown-ups say to soothe a child. But I was not consoled. I asked her,
"Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?"
She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, "Wayne always remember that there are other worlds to sing in."Somehow I felt better. Another day I was on the telephone, "Information Please.""Information," said in the now familiar voice. "How do I spell fix?" I asked.

All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. When I was nine years old, we moved across the country to Boston. I missed my friend very much. "Information Please" belonged in that old wooden box back home and I somehow never thought of trying the shiny new phone that sat on the table in the hall. As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me.
Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy.
A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down in Seattle. I had about a half-hour or so between planes. I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now. Then without thinking what I was doing, I dialled my hometown Operator and said, "Information Please."Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well. "Information.">

I hadn't planned this, but I heard myself saying, "Could you please tell me how to spell fix?" There was a long pause. Then came the soft spoken answer, "I guess your finger must have healed by now."
I laughed, "So it's really you," I said. "I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time?"
"I wonder," she said, "if you know how much your call meant to me. I never had any children and I used to look forward to your calls." I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister. "Please do", she said. "Just ask for Sally."
Three months later I was back in Seattle. A different voice answered "Information."
I asked for Sally. "Are you a friend?" she said. "Yes, a very old friend," I answered.
"I'm sorry to have to tell you this," she said. "Sally had been working part-time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago."
Before I could hang up she said, "Wait a minute, did you say your name was Wayne?"
"Yes" I answered.
"Well, Sally left a message for you. She wrote it down in case you called. Let me read it to you."

The note said, "Tell him there are other worlds to sing in. He'll know what I mean."
I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant.

Never underestimate the impression you may make on others.
Whose life have you touched today?

I was sent this beautiful message and saw the value in sharing it with you.


The Most Beautiful Rainbow As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Lets create better client relationships


why not organise your on workshop for your team?
During this difficult economic times, there is huge value in re-assessing how we operate within our business. Many companies are holding strategic planning meetings; sales meetings; budget cutting meetings.. All excellent ideas to review our approach in the market.

HOWEVER - to provide your busines with the edge over your competitor.. the secret to success is by providing better service, developing customer loyality, sharpening HOW we do business.

To often we allow our old habits and our off handed ways reflect in our attitude about our client.
I have worked with Sales Teams, Receptionists and other front of house persons to develop fun relationship building activities, which inject enthusiasm back into the employee, while creating a dynamic and powerful relationship for your clients, so that they wish to return to your business time and time again. These sessions are tailor made to be specific to your industry and fit into your schedule. You will be amazed at the results, you will love the feedback as both your staff and clients will be happy. All this equals to a stronger bottom line.
Some of topics covered in the workshop:
Attitude; Grattitude; Effective Time Management practices including time sabotages; Empathy; Communication Skills including Body Language; Styles of Speech, Writing a Phone Script; Going the extra mile (even for a fee); Relating - all based on how and why we think and behave in the ways that we do.

Email for a no obligation meeting to discuss how we may give your business THAT edge.

Training can be from a brief 1 hour presentation to a number of hands on interactive workshops. In general, 3 - 4 one hour presentations will change the way you do business in a most positive way.

MOTIVATIONAL MESSAGES

“No one keeps his enthusiasm automatically…
Enthusiasm must be nourished with new actions,
new aspirations, new efforts, new vision”
- Papyrus


“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams…
live the life you have imagined” – Thoreau


“Man is not the creature of circumstances….
Circumstances are the creatures of men.”
- Benjamin Disraeli


Concerning all acts of initiative and creation..
There is one elementary truth…..
That the moment one definitely commits oneself,
Then Providence moves, too”
- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe


“It is in your moments of decision, that your destiny
is shaped” - Anthony Robbins



“I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded, is another step forward”
- Thomas Edison
“The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life.
If you don’t life controls you” – Anthony Robbins


“Nature has placed mankind under the government of two sovereign masters, PAIN and PLEASURE… they govern us in all we do, in all we say, in all we think: every effort we can make to throw off our subjection, will serve but to demonstrate and confirm it.”
- Jeremy Bentham

“Only in man’s imagination does every truth find an effective and undeniable existence. Imagination, not invention, is the supreme master of art, as of life”
- Joseph Conrad


“It is the mind that maketh good of ill, that maketh wretch or happy, rich or poor.” – Edmund Spenser


“We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts
With our thoughts, We make our World “
BUDDHA

“As he thinketh in his heart, so is he” –Proverbs 23:7

“A good plan today, is better than a perfect plan tomorrow” - General George S. Patton

“You cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head, but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair” - Chinese Proverb

“Recognise that you have the courage within you to fulfil the purpose of your birth. Summon forth the power of your inner courage and live the life of your dreams” - Gurumayi Chidvilasananda


“The person who is willing to say yes to experience, is the person who discovers new frontiers”
- John Marks Templeton

“Each of us inevitable; Each of us limitless – each of us with his or her right upon the earth; Each of us allow’d the eternal purports of the earth; Each of us here as divinely as any is here.” – Walt Whitman

“When written in Chinese, the word ‘CRISIS’ is composed of two characters – one represents danger, and the other represents opportunity”
- John F. Kennedy

“Nothing great will ever be achieved without great men, and men are great only if they are determined to be so” - Charles De Gaulle

Monday, June 8, 2009

You Tube..

Great new Creative Visualisation on YouTube...together with my other items.
looking forward to creating some more shortly, from a presentation on Mentoring.
Stayed Tuned ;-)
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